I used to joke with my frnds here that we are Unpaid kaamwali bais in US..jab (sahabji...Hubby) kahenge..khana banaao...to khaana banao..... jab saath main bahar chalna hain to saath main bahar chalo...n ever ything runs at sahabji's approval......!
As I got the job after a long relaxing lazy break of 2.5 yrs..... I wonder how Supermoms always have to do the tight rope walk between her own aspirations and demands from her from everyone. Kids need al the attention, the New year resolution asking for hr to workout in gym, hubby expecting a clean spic and span house and at end of the day your own expectaions of performing all these demands with utter perfection......Its a double whammy as when you are jobless u get so bored of sleeping, lazying, and becoming an unpaid Kaamwaali bai and gossiping..(which girl can be tired of gossiping ...I wonder) and when u take up a job..... very less time is left for managing your relationships...with ur family......
As Hubbys become more accomodating and understanding of their working wives, giving them easier options to dine out, helping in clean up...Men too are putting a an effort to make moms the super moms.... but no one ever appreciates them.... Hats-off to al the Men of those working better halfs who make.
But at end of the day I think having a flexible Business ownership works best for Moms or women...it gives them all things she wants... aspirations, Money, Satisfaction, Career, Time for kids, and opportunity to Order chalaofy on recruits......
I hope one day I will have these things in my own business ...till then enjoing and learning on the Job
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Hey, ask my wife. i do alllllllllllll the household work and outside work and she lazzies out .
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